interesting issue i had early this morning. Its all started with ligo tak dapat buat her morning exercise cos her other half can't handle the kids esp in the morning. I respect him for telling the truth at least its good to know and he acknowledge his limitation. Men needs more time to get adjustable and they are not so multi-task .. even Sujimy acknowledged it in last sunday programme - Santai. No its not abt being selfish at all. But its about Time. * sing: time after time*
so this morning when i received an email full of "angst" from ligo .. i divert her thot.. let's not spoil your morning, dear. As i know she will try to make her plan works tomorrow, hahaha cos i know her style. Good luck gurl *sing: run run as fast as u can ..*
so, the matter boggle in my head, i did a mini survey. i asked two ladies in the office "Can your husband take care of ur kids":
anna said: It shld be ok i guess but infant maybe not. Its not that he cant take care but I dun hv enuf confident to leave the kids with him esp for bath hehehe dun want my baby to drown. But big children shld be ok.
shanti said: No, he can't... actually he can but need time to practice. Some wives think these guys have their duty..but come to think of it we know our husbands well. We are working and we are expected to do more, what to do, want to argue..then it will be nvr ending.... we shower the kids, they love us more..hehehe. Anyway, if you enjoy doing what you are doing, then you won't blame others not even spouse.....we change the believe system in us not others.
That's what the two lady fren of mine feels. Hmm .. maybe im more like anna, eh but im like shanti too oh well .. when i need help, i shout for help lah!! ...
I heard ova the radio It's International Women's Day. Well, happy Women's day u' all. let's end this entry with a quote from our Beloved Prophet Mohammed :
"Treat your women well and be kind to them for they are your partners and committed helpers." - From the last sermon of Prophet Mohammed
p/s: sorry ligo cerita u jadi modal i kat sini plak, next week i blanja u briyani kat railway station ok. oh, briyani must eat on friday kan? hahahaha our Ms Ligo and her briyani theory : )
so this morning when i received an email full of "angst" from ligo .. i divert her thot.. let's not spoil your morning, dear. As i know she will try to make her plan works tomorrow, hahaha cos i know her style. Good luck gurl *sing: run run as fast as u can ..*
so, the matter boggle in my head, i did a mini survey. i asked two ladies in the office "Can your husband take care of ur kids":
anna said: It shld be ok i guess but infant maybe not. Its not that he cant take care but I dun hv enuf confident to leave the kids with him esp for bath hehehe dun want my baby to drown. But big children shld be ok.
shanti said: No, he can't... actually he can but need time to practice. Some wives think these guys have their duty..but come to think of it we know our husbands well. We are working and we are expected to do more, what to do, want to argue..then it will be nvr ending.... we shower the kids, they love us more..hehehe. Anyway, if you enjoy doing what you are doing, then you won't blame others not even spouse.....we change the believe system in us not others.
That's what the two lady fren of mine feels. Hmm .. maybe im more like anna, eh but im like shanti too oh well .. when i need help, i shout for help lah!! ...
I heard ova the radio It's International Women's Day. Well, happy Women's day u' all. let's end this entry with a quote from our Beloved Prophet Mohammed :
"Treat your women well and be kind to them for they are your partners and committed helpers." - From the last sermon of Prophet Mohammed
p/s: sorry ligo cerita u jadi modal i kat sini plak, next week i blanja u briyani kat railway station ok. oh, briyani must eat on friday kan? hahahaha our Ms Ligo and her briyani theory : )
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i've left my infant/toddler/pre-school with my hubby before. Takut lemas? Heheh..ambik towel,lap2 je lah. Hehehheh.
yes, you know how i will try to make things works for me, kalau dah try, ulang-kali tak jadi, makna, confirmed "gone case, sudah lah tu" hehehhe
kira belum cuba belum tau :->
*men, sesungguhnya seperti seorang bayi, sepanjang hidup, perlu dibelai" I've been told, which I agree. But I like my big baby to have some extra duties, nanti I upah lah, once job completed ;-))
i agree Sesangat men are like baby. sbb wif 2 kids at home i bley sapu/kemas, cuci baju, masak all in a day on my own. with lovey around abok pun tak jadi. masak jer la..*hairan kan?*
p/s: errr ada upah eh?
nak jaga family, tapi nak jaga that we dont lose our identity and suppress our own needs.
jadi? this morning pun tak jadi gi office gym. pi mai, pi mai tang tu, lagu tu jugak lah, not long enuf time for me to sweat it out, shower and be at my workstation by 8.30am.
we had breakfast, i suggested this morning and he replied "not going to gym ke, you bawak your gym bag kan
ligo, kesempatan masih ada.. teruskan berjuang ya :)
anyways, happy women's day darling sisters...;)