Sunday, May 29, 2016

kimi n ayah

Kimi manja!! Everyone cant get enuf of him. Subhanallah.

Saturday, April 16, 2016

Ya Allah.. bantu kami. Permudahkanlah kehidupan kami ini. Ya Allah, Engkau yg maha pengasih lagi penyayang.
Aku sedang mencuba menjaga mulut ini. Aku takut apa yg terbuku di dada akan menyinggung hati bila terucap nanti.
Bantu aku Ya Allab.

Friday, March 25, 2016

hello my little one

Alhamdulilah krn Allah beri kesihatan pada ku. Kekuatan mengharungi kehilangan dan kebahagian bersama keluarga. Ya Rabb .. sesungguhnya kehidupan ini milik Mu.


Syukur pada Allah atas kesempatan ini. Hello Adeena!! Panik menyerang ayah dan ibu bila kubur Adeena tak kelihatan tanda. Tapi takpe, ayah dah letak semula tanda nama Adeena. Insyallah, ayah akan usaha supaya kubur Adeena dibuat rumah2 jadi tak hilang begitu saja.

Berderai airmata ibu dan ayah tak kala kami melawat kubur Adeena. Tak sangka, anak Bubu pergi mendahului ayah dan ibu. Jgn lupa ya sayang.. nantikan kami bersama abg Adib & abg Kimi di pintu Syurga. Subhanallah...

Thursday, March 17, 2016

Goodbye my little one Hana Adeena

Ya Allah, kami redha dengan ketentuan ini. Kami bersyukur kerana dianugerahkan seorang  puteri. Semoga kami bertemu lagi dgn Adeena suatu masa nanti. Ya Allah, berikan la kami kekuatan melalui saat2 ini dgn tabah & redha. Sesungguhnya Engkau la sebaik2 perancang buat kami. Aameen.




 Saat akhir bersama ibu dan ayah sebelum Adeena pergi meninggalkan bubu di hospital


Thursday, February 4, 2016

..pilu

I wanted to write more but i cant.
I sedih la.
I sedang cuba menahan sedih.
I redha dengan qada'&qadar dari Allah.
Tapi air mata ni....

Monday, January 18, 2016

dear Shan

What was the dream about?
Im doing fine i guess. Just getting heavier cos its the eating season for me. Im trying to help my baby to gain more weight. Oh in case u dont know, we plan to name her Hana Adeena.
Shan, during the 5th mth detail scan (last dec), Doc found a lot of abnormalities with baby Adeena. Its due to lack of some numbers of chromosome. Maybe due to my age. Doc suggested for me to terminate the baby as they found that baby is too small, there's hole in her heart, her breathing tube seems to be lesser, her left kidney is smller than her right. If I didnt terminate the baby, she will just stop growing and parish.
But I couldnt do it Shan. Only God can take away live. Furthermore, she's bn so active kicking and responding to our voices all this while that I've decided to keep it and pray for miracles.

During the 22nd week her size is abt 18th wks baby.
When she's 24th week, she is abt 22wks baby.

Now that i no longger vomitted my food, I hope she can get all the food and supplement to help her grow well.

So im in my 26th weeks now..
During last week check up, doc asked me for my plan for the baby.
1st:
Do the amnio test, check on baby chromosome and another detail scan. Get the best baby heart surgeon to see the report and get his views whether its worth or not to save the baby right after birth.
2nd:
Hold her in my arms right after birth until she turns blue due to lack of oxygen support in maybe 2hrs and say my goodbye.

Both are just too heavy to deal with. Only crying seems to be the immediate reaponds. But for now, im feeling better and keep on praying for baby Adeena.
Do you know during the first scan, we could see her hand as if  waving at us. That is how sweet she is.. I ever told her to give a hard kick so Adib can feel her and she did!! I told her to do the same for Kimi and she did as well. There was once, doc was trying to check on her gender and I told her to show to Taha that she is a girl. You know what she did? She straighten her leg and open it wide!!! Gosh!! Thats how wonderful and special Adeena is and im just too sad to talk about it that i could only write it here for friends to read.
Shan, u said before God will help us cos we are good pple, and im holding on to that.
Im hoping for His Grace and miracles. But whatever the outcome is, we live it in God's hand cos He is the best Planner and the All Knowing whats best for us.

There, Ive said it all. Writing while tears on my cheeck.. its another test from God and it help us to stay grounded and thankful for every minute we have as a family.

Love as always,
Ratna