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morning rush

interesting issue i had early this morning. Its all started with ligo tak dapat buat her morning exercise cos her other half can't handle the kids esp in the morning. I respect him for telling the truth at least its good to know and he acknowledge his limitation. Men needs more time to get adjustable and they are not so multi-task .. even Sujimy acknowledged it in last sunday programme - Santai. No its not abt being selfish at all. But its about Time. * sing: time after time*

so this morning when i received an email full of "angst" from ligo .. i divert her thot.. let's not spoil your morning, dear. As i know she will try to make her plan works tomorrow, hahaha cos i know her style. Good luck gurl *sing: run run as fast as u can ..*

so, the matter boggle in my head, i did a mini survey. i asked two ladies in the office "Can your husband take care of ur kids":

anna said: It shld be ok i guess but infant maybe not. Its not that he cant take care but I dun hv enuf confident to leave the kids with him esp for bath hehehe dun want my baby to drown. But big children shld be ok.

shanti said: No, he can't... actually he can but need time to practice. Some wives think these guys have their duty..but come to think of it we know our husbands well. We are working and we are expected to do more, what to do, want to argue..then it will be nvr ending.... we shower the kids, they love us more..hehehe. Anyway, if you enjoy doing what you are doing, then you won't blame others not even spouse.....we change the believe system in us not others.

That's what the two lady fren of mine feels. Hmm .. maybe im more like anna, eh but im like shanti too oh well .. when i need help, i shout for help lah!! ...

I heard ova the radio It's International Women's Day. Well, happy Women's day u' all. let's end this entry with a quote from our Beloved Prophet Mohammed :

"Treat your women well and be kind to them for they are your partners and committed helpers." - From the last sermon of Prophet Mohammed

p/s: sorry ligo cerita u jadi modal i kat sini plak, next week i blanja u briyani kat railway station ok. oh, briyani must eat on friday kan? hahahaha our Ms Ligo and her briyani theory : )


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Anonymous said…
ewah, jadi discussion pulak eh..it's ok - it's interesting kan, find out how others manage their time/family/own interest(s).

i've left my infant/toddler/pre-school with my hubby before. Takut lemas? Heheh..ambik towel,lap2 je lah. Hehehheh.

yes, you know how i will try to make things works for me, kalau dah try, ulang-kali tak jadi, makna, confirmed "gone case, sudah lah tu" hehehhe

kira belum cuba belum tau :->

*men, sesungguhnya seperti seorang bayi, sepanjang hidup, perlu dibelai" I've been told, which I agree. But I like my big baby to have some extra duties, nanti I upah lah, once job completed ;-))
4:51 PM
lunacy said…
last nite i heard adib said "so funny like that" and that's how i would like to say to ur comments hehe.. kalau lemas lap2 jer haha no nd to dial 995 kan?

i agree Sesangat men are like baby. sbb wif 2 kids at home i bley sapu/kemas, cuci baju, masak all in a day on my own. with lovey around abok pun tak jadi. masak jer la..*hairan kan?*

p/s: errr ada upah eh?
5:11 PM
I_mshe said…
hmm yes they are like babies.. Korang mesti kata aku ultra feminist... tapi is where us women our fault lies. We treat them like babies. we treat them like our child.. while we ARE MARRIED TO THEM?!!! think about it... we should treat them as our partners in life.. what we face in life we face it together ... if we kekurangan we seek their views asistance blablabla.. and it should be the same. Our mindset fault is that we treat them like 'children, we mother them" .. that;s when WE get in trouble.. when we seek their help .. they say they are not competent to do it or we assume they are not competent.. we put the whole burden on our shoulder. Now how is that?
5:50 PM
I_mshe said…
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5:50 PM
Anonymous said…
ah, itu dia, bukan senang jadi wife, ibu, employee and an individual with 1001 needs / wants.

nak jaga family, tapi nak jaga that we dont lose our identity and suppress our own needs.

jadi? this morning pun tak jadi gi office gym. pi mai, pi mai tang tu, lagu tu jugak lah, not long enuf time for me to sweat it out, shower and be at my workstation by 8.30am.

we had breakfast, i suggested this morning and he replied "not going to gym ke, you bawak your gym bag kan
9:45 AM
lunacy said…
i ni kan macam tak faminist langsung tau esp after living with 3 boys. Lagi pulak "im a tomboy at heart" hik hik hik so tulah die kisah nya. nak ask for equal share but i think tak pelah im good at what im doing now and so is lovey. its more stable that way in our family.

ligo, kesempatan masih ada.. teruskan berjuang ya :)
11:28 AM
Anonymous said…
thihihihi...sabo ajelah...very kelakar la you married women!

anyways, happy women's day darling sisters...;)
10:28 AM
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