how wud u feel eh to find out that the reason ur little one kept wanting to go his grandpa house was because he was still waiting and looking forward to meet his late grandma.
everyday aku cuba jadi kuat, aku cuba kuatkan hati. aku cuba tanamkan senyuman. aku cuba ceriakan perasaan. dan bila anak kecil ku kimi bertanya mana Nyai bu? kimi nak nyai. hmmm macam bersepai rasa hati ni. aku pilih utk berjawab perkara yg benar bahwa nyai dah tak de lagi. Nyai dah meninggal. Rumah Nyai kat kubur dan macam2 lagi .. dan aku tahu kimi 'refuse' untuk terima apa jua jawaban aku kerana dia masih menuggu nyai ..
everyday aku cuba jadi kuat, aku cuba kuatkan hati. aku cuba tanamkan senyuman. aku cuba ceriakan perasaan. dan bila anak kecil ku kimi bertanya mana Nyai bu? kimi nak nyai. hmmm macam bersepai rasa hati ni. aku pilih utk berjawab perkara yg benar bahwa nyai dah tak de lagi. Nyai dah meninggal. Rumah Nyai kat kubur dan macam2 lagi .. dan aku tahu kimi 'refuse' untuk terima apa jua jawaban aku kerana dia masih menuggu nyai ..
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kalau ada baju ke, kain, nyai, kasi lah kat kimi, buat dia lepas rindu. that's what i usually heard people says
I think only time will help heal his wound as he grows older & begin to understand & accept the loss and then the sadness & pain will lessen. In the meantime, hang in there, try to distract him when he asks for his nyai so he temporarily forgets, help him to move on by not wallowing too much on the loss even though its not easy, overall shower him with lots of love as what you've been doing already, may Allah give us the strength to overcome His challenges in this life, amin.