*Spanking*

last year, we had hard time with issue on school bully. Adib was bullied several time by few of the boys in school. Remembering back how he came back home with bloody mouth, losing his baby teeth (twice on diff occasion), being pushed, two boys pulled his legs and hands and he ended up fell flat on the ground. It was all too painful and pityful for us as a family. We were worried sick about adib development in school. Worried especially if the class bully would 'teased' him. Even on the last week of school last year, the class bully still tried his luck to bully adib.


This year, i have not heard of any storys yet. Only that the class bully would use adib writting materials in class. Few times we told adib to inform the teachers but not too sure if adib actually did it!! And sooo the story goes .. Yesterday, lovey and me weren't working. We dicided to fetch adib in school, I happend to meet with the form teacher and to my SURPRISE teacher told me adib did something last week. According to teacher, the class bully told adib to take one hand of another classmate while he took the other hand and they did something until the boy both arm had a blue/black mark. Yes!! adib joined the geng bully and we were so shocked/disappointed/angry when we heard the stories. Could you imagine how we felt? We were so against BULLY and adib actually bullied other kid!!. Lovey got mad! really mad over this whole situation. We decided that Adib had to be punished for what he did. For team up with the class bully, for hurting his small built and quiet classmate, for ignoring ibu/ayah advise!! After all the lecture, questions and answers, its was time for the punishment. Since we don't have 'rotan' at home i told Lovey he could use his belt. Lovey who was mad as i don't know what to describe actually had no heart to spank adib. But i told Lovey to do it as a punishment and hope adib would remember it forever. Lover was in tears as he got up and hit adib buttock. Adib cried. Lovey cried too .. and soon both father and son hugged each other.

erm me? i need to find the boy's home number to apologize to his mum for what my son did. I knew adib didn't mean to hurt his friend. It was probably something that started as teasing but gone bad in the end. I hope he will be wiser next time ...

Parenthood - never too easy just when we thot he was showing improvement in school and matter like this happend. We hope we did it right and we hope adib learnt his lesson, Insyallah.